Thanks Lazurus1977...a beautifull little video of the talk he has given and that you can read on the official Church website under the following link...
http://www.providentliving.org/ses/emotionalhealth/0,12283,2130-1 ,00.html
The topic is abuse (click there...), where the talk is to be found by Elder Holland..."How do I love thee" you might chose to read it or an other one...I have included this link, because there are soooo many selfhelp topics, that might be interesting to read..you can just dig in... and feel the Spirit comfort you. Enjoy!